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Note:
This is a article totally based on a person's perspective towards love. The things said or the words selected are totally based on the author's beliefs and experiences.
Introduction
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When I was in a relationship I felt like I didn't need to be vocal all the time. Not being vocal and expecting the other person to know how you feel and act accordingly. It's not good to expect how to be treated but we are humans and we expect more from someone else.
Love is like a Rose. It has beautiful petals but along with it there are thorns.
Some thorns of love that often prick me are:
Being unable to express feelings properly:
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When I am in a relationship, I expect something from my partner. Everyone does so. But the main problem lies in me. Not being able to express my desires to my partner. I want her to behave in a certain way or not to treat me in a particular way but I am not able to deliver the actual message to my partner properly.
Love is boring:
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Love isn't just about experiencing happy and enjoyable moments. As time passes we have to experience many complexities and misunderstandings. These aspects of love bothers me a lot and makes me unable to continue my relationships and it makes me bored.
Avoiding hard conversation:
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When the other person points me out (which happens a lot). I became scared about myself. I try to avoid each other's faults which creates more tension among us, resulting in a more serious conflict. I try to avoid hard conversations but it often backfires.
Assumptions:
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I assume that the one with whom I am sharing my relation knows me better. It's like expecting but assumptions always creates unexpected standard regarding the other person This creates confusion, conflict and love fades away.
